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                        |  | Spring Cleaning for Your
                        Dreamsby
                              Suzanne Falter-Barns
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 |  Got dreams? Spring is a time that’s fairly
                        crackling with possibilities for forging ahead. But how
                        can you effectively harness all that energy, and turn it
                        into actions that really move you forward?
 I say have a "Clean Start Planning Retreat." This is a
                        technique I've been using for several years that really
                        helps focus and ground your actions. And even though it
                        may be brown and muddy outside (if you’re in New
                        England) … you can still rise up and harness the
                        abundant energy in the rebirth of spring.  
 1. Schedule two full days in which you can do
                        something just for you. Begin by scheduling in at least two full days
                        sometime before spring really kicks in that you can
                        designate "Clean Start Days." You can schedule them
                        together, or separately. Saturdays can work well for
                        this. (If you tend to be a guilty parent, use this as a
                        chance for someone else who loves your kids to spend the
                        day with them.) 2. Record your results for the last year or quarter. Day One is dedicated to assessing what progress you’ve
                        made on your dreams. It may be that you’re just
                        beginning your dream, and have few or possibly no ‘tangible’
                        records of progress yet. Take a look through journals,
                        and notebooks from classes or programs. On the other hand, you may be launching a business,
                        or just starting to sell your work. If so through
                        ledgers, stat reports on web sites, check book
                        registers, receipt piles, Quicken files, sent email
                        files, even phone bills. Compare what you unearth to any
                        goals you made for the last year. It doesn’t matter
                        how much time you span – use your intuition on which
                        parameters to use. Wherever you are with your dream, write up a
                        report that addresses these essential categories.
                        (It’s okay to write, ‘None yet,’ in many categories
                        if that’s where you are … this gives you room to
                        grow, right?) 
                          Products/Services producedMarketing efforts (be sure to log in their
                        effectiveness)People reached (and which target markets they come
                        from, if you can)IncomeExpensesSupport System (include staff, temp help,
                        consultants, support group)Office (assess the effectiveness of your workspace
                        and its equipment)Inspirational Tools (note any sources of stimulation
                        or ideas that have worked well for you, or what you
                        might need in this area)Mistakes MadeLessons LearnedIdeas HatchedOld Projects RetiredReviews/Critiques/Feedback (assess overall reaction
                        on each product or service)General Risk Assessment (did you take enough? Wish
                        you took more?) 3. Pick a really appealing location for Day Two. (You
                        might even bring a supportive friend.) Once you've got your report in hand, move on to day
                        two. It's critically important you not do this work
                        in your home or office. Instead, go into a
                        new environment that gives you a blast of inspiration.
                        Choose a place that naturally nurtures you. It doesn't
                        have to be an expensive resort. My husband and I
                        sometimes spend the day sitting in front of the
                        fireplace of a nearby country inn, where we also eat
                        lunch. Think of weekend getaways belonging to friends,
                        your favorite beach, a string of cool coffee bars and
                        restaurants. You might even consider doing this work
                        with a friend and splitting the cost of a room at a
                        hotel or resort for a night or two. Pick places that are
                        fun to be in, but also provide a spot to get comfortable
                        and talk quietly. If you do choose to bring along a friend, make sure
                        it's a staunch supporter. You want to share your dreams
                        and visions with someone who won't take too much delight
                        in 'playing devil's advocate'. Nor do you want to bring
                        along a mindless yes-person who will ooh and aah over
                        your worst ideas. You want someone who can help you see
                        the gaps in last year’s systems, and help you to reach
                        for your biggest and best, as well. You also want to be
                        available to support that person’s goal’s, too. This
                        way, you can become yearlong support buddies to each
                        other, which always helps. Also, if you bring a friend, take turns briefly
                        sharing last year’s progress reports that you created
                        in Day One, so he or she has a point of reference. Of course, many of us prefer to do this sort of
                        planning alone, and that’s just fine, too! 4. Spend Day Two imagining the year you really want. It's this simple: bring lots of paper, sit back and
                        dream. That's why a nice, nurturing environment is so
                        important -- because it's hard to think big if you're
                        looking at a kitchen full of dirty dishes. 
                          Set concrete goals in all the following areas that
                        speak to you, plus any others you can think of.Products Produced/Services RenderedPeople reached (how many and whom)Overall ResultsEmotional being/Level of personal satisfactionPublicity/PromotionFinancialWork environmentSupport StaffSources of Inspiration Really blue sky this ... (and feel free to add any
                        other categories you can think of.) And while you're at
                        it, listen to your gut. That's the beauty of taking the
                        time to do this -- it finally gives you time to hear
                        what you're intuition wants to tell you about your
                        dream. Also, be careful to be specific with your goals.
                        Don't wish to "make lots of money." Give it a
                        dollar amount. Don’t write down "I’m generally
                        happy," under the heading, Emotional being -- write
                        down,
                        "I’m happy and satisfied with the knowledge that
                        I’m helping people achieve …" or whatever it is
                        that resonates for you.  
 Also, don't write down things you think you should
                        want, but in your heart, you're not so sure about. If
                        you think being on Oprah would be a good idea, but you
                        have this vague feeling that it might be overwhelming,
                        don't write it down. You won’t be able to manifest it
                        anyway, probably, since manifesting is a gut-based
                        process. Instead, pick the goal that seems really right
                        -- maybe appear on a local cable show or do some radio. Finally, you want to imagine goals that align with
                        your soul purpose in life – that unique gift that you
                        are meant to give to others. Let this be like a great
                        guiding umbrella that informs your choices. (For more
                        information about your soul purpose in life, check out
                        my Discover Your Soul Purpose CD at http://www.howmuchjoy.com/soulpurpose.html 5. Divide your goal list into business quarters. To further treat your visions and goals effectively,
                        break them down by quarters, like businesses do that end
                        on April 1, June 1, September 1 and January 1. Figure
                        out what you can reasonably expect to get done by
                        quarterly dates, (a support buddy can be a great help
                        with this.) You can even write down a specific list of
                        actions for the first quarter, and leave the remaining
                        three rather vague. That's okay. Just tighten them up as
                        you progress through the year. Then you can have a
                        little burst of energy at the beginning of each quarter,
                        as you slice, dice, reassess and rearrange your goals. Now you're all set to have a magnificent year!
                        Congratulations! © Copyright 2005
                        Suzanne Falter-Barns  All Rights Reserved.  
  Suzanne Falter-Barns   is the author
                        of the new book, Living Your Joy: A Practical Guide
                        to Happiness (Ballantine) and How Much Joy Can You Stand? A Creative Guide To
                        Facing Your Fears and Making Your Dreams Come True (Ballantine
                        Wellspring).
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