Set the mood. Play a piece of enticing yet
soothing music. Light two candles. One for him, and one
for you. This will illuminate your experience, and also
shine a light to show him the way home … to you.
Include everything. If you truly want a soulful lover,
it is important that you imagine some of the sensual and
erotic qualities you choose to experience with your love
mate. Be as specific as you can, and include details on
the physical, emotional, spiritual (and any other)
dimensions of lovemaking. Unless you are in a sacred
relationship already, do not include images of a
specific person. This is a very powerful meditation. It’s
inappropriate to place spiritual expectations on someone
who hasn’t agreed to be intimate with you.
Meditation begins with this positive affirmation
in the present tense: "I am now
cherished, loved, honored and adored by the man of my
Now reflect on these points: Give each point some
time, visualizing and "feeling the responses,"
1. How do you feel when he looks you deeply in the
2. Imagine how secure and loved you feel in his arms.
3. Think of things he tells you as he holds you and
4. How do you feel about yourself in the space of
being cherished, adored, and loved by the man of your
5. Can you feel your heart opening? Can you feel your
second chakra, the sexual center, opening? See that part
of your body vibrating with orange. Can you feel your
throat chakra opening, freeing your
communication--because you can tell him anything! See
that part of your body coated in indigo blue.
6. Imagine your anticipation of being with him in
loving surrender, sharing the things you’ve only
dreamed about before. What does it feel like, inside
your body, when you think of opening to him and sharing
7. How does it feel to be loved by him? How does he
feel to be loved by you? What’s it like to be so in
8. What does the scent of love smell like to you?
What does he smell like, as you lay entwined together?
What is your own scent?
9. What does love sound like to you? The rhythmic
beating of his heart, and yours, in harmony? The soft
sound of his breath in your ear?
10. What do you sense about life, about yourself,
about your relationship when you are in his loving
embrace? Where does the journey take you? Deeper into
your heart? To a place of awakening of love, where the
world feels so delicious and you feel so overwhelmingly
11. What do you want more of when your bodies are
entwined together? How open can you be? How intimate do
you truly want to be?
12. How does his skin feel, when it’s next to
yours? And what does your flesh feel like against his?
What is it like for you to feel him there, his physical
being all around you, loving you, wanting you, and
13. What are his kisses like? Does his mouth feel
like your mouth, like you are the same person, one kiss,
and one mouth? What’s it like to have someone there,
always, to kiss you?
14. What does he say when he makes love? What are the
things you long to hear him tell you? What does it feel
like when he speaks them softly into your ear?
15. Where is God when you make love with your man?
Where is the Goddess? Do you feel Great Spirit
permeating you and your beloved, making you each holy
and whole and uniting you in the God/Goddess force
energy of pure love? Do you see the divinity in yourself
through him; does he see his own God nature when he
gives himself to you? Do you realize that this is the
way it is meant to be--that we awaken one another to our
own divine nature through love?
Close with this affirmation. Say it out loud and give
it energy and life. "I am cherished, loved,
honored and adored by the man of my dreams, now."
Go to sleep right after this meditation and awake
refreshed. Note how you feel in the morning and
notice how people respond to you in the course of a day.
This can raise your energy so that you begin to lift
into your vision, and live it more fully. Do this as
many times as you want. Also, send your wishes out into
the universe to your true love, wherever may be. If you
believe in him, maybe he can hitch a ride on Santa’s
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